August 17, 2017

The Anti-Motivation Strategy (Part 8): Last Lessons From a Couple Personal Ethos Heroes

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Last week’s post introduced the concept of personal ethos — your core, essential self, the inner drive that defines you, that will be expressed simply because you are alive on this planet, here and now, doing what you do, for no other reason than that’s what you do. You don’t need motivation to do that. Besides, it’s what you do best, and love doing to boot.

Let’s end this series with a couple sports stories. Bear with me if that’s not your thing, but it’s a nice wrap up.

I once heard an interview in which Michael Jordan’s father said, “God decided to make a perfect basketball player, so he made Michael.” He wasn’t the only one who used that kind of language to describe his son. At the end of the 1986 season, Jordan came back from a broken ankle (too early, risking his career, the experts said) and played only 18 games, then burned the Boston Celtics for 63 points in a playoff game, causing Larry Bird to famously remark,

That was God disguised as Michael Jordan.”

It was a folksy thing to say. But what if he was right… I mean, really right? What if the sentence could be completed by someone observing your life and saying, “That was God disguised as [your name]”? Where would you find something that strong?

By looking at what you already do. What you’ve always done. What you’re going to do anyway, because that’s what you do, and you love doing it and you’re good at it.

When God decided to make a perfect _______, he made [your name].

I know, it sounds corny, but try it on. Go ahead — it won’t kill you. According to the concept of personal ethos, those bold statements are not a reach for a stress-fueled motivational challenge, they’re facts that come from the essence of who you are, at the level of your deepest, core self.

Tap that, and you can quit making trips to the dry, stressful motivation well. You won’t need it, You will do what you will do, irrepressibly and indomitably. You won’t be able to help it; you won’t want to. That’s what it means to operate from your personal ethos.

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Sure, you’ll face the challenge of staying focused on individual and collective mission and goals, but you face that challenge already anyway. Only now you’ll face it with more honesty, authenticity, and laser focus. Which means you can expect more explosive results. You’ll become this:

Michael-Jordan

Now, isn’t that a whole lot better than the carrot and stick you’ve been waving around?

If you’re interested in more about personal ethos, I wrote two books about it. Both are available as FREE downloads. For more, click the book covers.

 

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One reader said this: “Running For My Life is a unique and thought provoking read. On the surface it is a story about a man with primary progressive MS reshaping his life through a+ strict diet and extreme exercise regimen. However, if you take the time to explore the pages, you will find that it is really a story about Kevin and about yourself. This book invites you to take a look inwards at your own limitations, and then holds your hand as you figure out how to push past them together.”

 

EthosEthos is a stand-alone version of Book Three of Running For My Life. It is a Personal Ethos Credo — the things I believe about it, and how I practice it.

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